Obituary
Lila Laurine Schochenmaier was born January 12, 1930 at home near Naper, Nebraska to Otto and Mary (Gentele) Stahlecker and she died April 11, 2026 at the Parkside Manor Nursing Home in Stuart, Nebraska at the age of 96 years.
Lila was baptized on March 30, 1930 at the Immanuel Lutheran Church and confirmed on April 2, 1944 by Reverend Adelbert Stoehlin in Jamison, Nebraska. She was a faithful believer in her religion where she was given communion while in the Butte Nursing Home and Parkside Manor by Pastor Bill Serr.
On February 19, 1949 she was united in marriage to Alvin Schochenmaier and to this union three children were born: Douglas Gene, Marlis Rae and Diane Kay. They lived on Alvins folk’s place milking cows, raising chickens, hogs and sheep as well as planting crops and hay. They remained on the farm for almost 61 years. Alvin passed away in 2010 and they lost their son in 2016. She continued to live on the farm until 2015, when in October of that year she moved into Park Villa Apartments in Burke. She met very nice people there. A special friend was her neighbor, Sylvia Schlaht.Lila was a member of the Naper Ladies VFW and Auxiliary where she enjoyed participating in the Memorial Day Parade, potlucks and other related activities.
Lila is survived by Douglas’s three children: Scott and daughter Faith of Norfolk, NE; Shawn (Heather) and children Carter, Corbin, Brynn and Briar and of Sioux Falls, SD, and Jamie Stigge (Chris) sons Collin and Ryder of West Point, NE; her daughter, Marlis (Eric) Nelson of Burke, SD and their sons Dr. Derek (Rachel) Nelson and daughters Harbor and Everly of Rapid City, SD and Landon (Chrissy ) Nelson of Harrisburg, SD; her daughter Diane (Dewey) Peterson of Newport, NE and their three children: Desarae (Nathan) Schubauer and daughter Alyssa of Norfolk, NE; Mason and Dylan of Newport, NE; Kristy (James) Smith and their three children Cayden, Avery and Bryce of Stuart, NE; and Cody Peterson of Valentine, NE; sisters-in-law Karen Stahlecker of Portland, OR and Marjorie Schochenmaier of Bonesteel, SD.Lila was preceded in death by her parents; Otto and Mary, her husband Alvin; son Douglas, sisters: Irene Grim, Blanche Palmer, Evonne Kennedy and brothers Melvin, Don and Ivan.
Lila will truly be missed by all who knew her for her loving, caring and compassion for all. She always enjoyed gardening and having planted beautiful flowers.
The Stahlecker Family: From Württemberg to Nebraska
A Journey Across Four Generations and Three Continents
The Name
Stahlecker is a rare German surname rooted in the Swabian Alb region of Württemberg, southwestern Germany. It is either a habitational name derived from place names such as Stahleck or Stahlegg, or an occupational name from the Middle High German stalec - meaning "crucible" - given to craftsmen who worked with metal. Variants include Stahlacker, Stehlacker, and Staaleker. The name is documented in Honau, Reutlingen district, from at least the early 18th century.
Generation I: Johann Klemens Stahlecker (1778–1836)
The Emigrant from Württemberg
The traceable family history begins with Johann Klemens Stahlecker, born on 24 December 1778 in Honau, Reutlingen, Württemberg - a small village nestled in the Echaz valley beneath the Swabian Alb. He was a man of the late 18th century, born into a Württemberg that was overpopulated, heavily taxed, and recovering from the devastation of repeated wars.
In the early 19th century, Johann made the momentous decision to leave Württemberg and join one of the great emigration waves of the era: the invitation of the Russian Crown - first extended by Catherine the Great and renewed by Alexander I - to German settlers to colonize the fertile but underpopulated lands of southern Russia and Ukraine. Tens of thousands of Swabian and Württemberg families answered this call, forming a chain of German-speaking colonies stretching from the Black Sea coast to the Odessa region.
Johann settled in the Nikolayev colony in the Derhachi district of Kharkiv (in present-day Ukraine), where he died on 16 January 1836 at the age of 57. He had crossed Europe - from the Swabian Alb to the Ukrainian steppe - and founded a family line that would not stop moving for another century.
Generation II: Isaiah Stahlecker (1808–1851)
Born in South Russia
Johann Klemens's son, Isaiah Stahlecker, was the first of the family born on Russian soil. He came into the world on 26 November 1808 in Guldendorf, in the Liebental Village of the Odessa Region - one of the flourishing German colonies established along the Black Sea coast. These colonies were tight-knit, German-speaking Lutheran communities that retained their language, faith, and customs across generations while farming the rich southern steppe.
Isaiah's life unfolded entirely within the German-Russian colonial world. He died on 6 February 1851 at age 42 in Friedenstal, a village in the Akkerman District of the Bessarabian colony region - present-day southern Moldova and southwestern Ukraine.
Generation III: John (Johann) Stahlecker (1843–1924)
The Pioneer Who Crossed the Atlantic
Isaiah's son Johann Stahlecker was born in 1843 - likely in the same Bessarabian or South Russian colonial milieu in which his father had lived and died. He grew up in a world that was beginning to change around the German colonies: Russia's emancipation of the serfs in 1861, the introduction of military conscription obligations for colonists in 1871, and the broader economic and political pressures of the 1860s and 1870s all pushed tens of thousands of German-Russians to reconsider their future on the steppe and look toward America.
Johann married Barbara Reuter in 1863 and, a decade later, made the decision that would define the family's future. In 1873, he sailed from Hamburg, landing in New York after a fifteen-day voyage - part of the great wave of German-Russian emigration to the Great Plains that brought entire communities from the Black Sea colonies to Nebraska, Kansas, and the Dakotas in the 1870s and 1880s.
From New York, Johann came directly to Columbus, Nebraska, where he rented farmland for five years. He then moved to South Dakota, filing a homestead in Hutchinson County, where he lived for fourteen years. In 1892, he made his final move, settling in Boyd County, Nebraska, two and a half miles west of the village of Naper, where he bought 160 acres of land. He later retired into Naper itself, where he and his sons-in-law ran two hardware and implement businesses - one in Naper, one in Herrick, South Dakota.
Johann and Barbara had eleven children: Conrad, Fredrika, Gottlieb, Josias, Katrina, John, Barbara, Elizabeth, Marie, Dora, and Jacob - a large family rooted now, finally, in American soil after a journey that had begun in a Württemberg village nearly a century earlier.
Johann was a lifelong member of the Lutheran church and a Republican in political faith. He had endured Nebraska blizzards, prairie fires, and the harsh realities of frontier farming. His earliest home was the typical pioneer sod house. He died in 1924, having lived long enough to see Boyd County transformed from open prairie into settled farmland.



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